Your time
orientation dramatically changes how you live your life. So what's time
orientation?
Basically, it's
whether you focus on the past, present, or future.
Past-Orientation
Being oriented
mostly on the past means paying attention to where we've been. It's defining
situations as continuations of a historical story. You can go way far back, or
just back to your own personal history, such as your childhood. An extreme
example of this is the elderly man or woman who has decided that they're
finished--no new contributions to the world and no new experiences--and they literally spend all
day remembering their past.
Present-Orientation
Stop and smell the
roses is the motto of this orientation. This orientation places pleasure and
peace at the top of the priority list. This thinking results in a focus on the
journey rather than the destination.
Future Orientation
Focusing on the
future manifests as thoughts about the legacy you're trying to create (not an
existing legacy you've already built, mind you--that's past-orientation). It
drives people to sacrifice today's pleasures to purchase tomorrow's
accomplishments. This orientation emphasizes progress (not preserving the past)
and goal setting.
Your Personal Combination
We all consider all
three at times, but each person prioritizes them differently. We all have
personal histories that define us, and have at least some awareness of global
history shaping our identity and our life story. We all enjoy pleasure and have
made choices to make the moment better. And we've all set at least a few
goals--even if very short-term--and worked to accomplish it. The question is
which of these gets the most thinking time (and which gets the least).
If you could put a
percentage for each--in a typical week, how much of it do you spending thinking
about the past, the present, and the future?
Seriously, take a
second and come up with a general number for each category (hopefully adding up
to 100%).
This answer isn't
just an academic curiosity. Your time-orientation profile, if you will, leads
to very different life choices.
Is one better than
the other? Depends on what kind of life you want to live.
Pros & Cons of Past-Orientation
Focusing on the past
keeps you grounded in the larger story, increasing humility and adding a lot of
wisdom from the lessons of history. The Bible does give us a lot of history,
not just theologies. The events of the past do matter. But past-orientation can
also mire you in illusion of the better days of yore--and equate change into
decline. Jesus fulfilled history--and began a new, unprecedented era, too. In
literally every generation, there is a cadre of intelligent past-oriented
thinkers who bemoan society's fall from past excellence and prophecy we will
destroy ourselves. An objective view of history (I think) shows a more mixed
reality. We've gotten much better, much worse, and stayed the same--all at the
same time. Plus, no matter how old you are, there's more of life to explore and
more to contribute, so allowing the past to become all--and shutting down your
life--is a great waste of the gift of life you still have.
Pros & Cons of Present-Orientation
There's great wisdom
here--and great danger. The Bible does call us to abandon worry for the future
and focus on today (Matthew 6.25-34). We can't control the future, and we're
even discouraged from being too bold in making plans for the future (James 4.13-16).
But it also tells us to be like the ant and work hard today so that we're ready
when winter comes--the sluggard who only enjoys himself today is treated
harshly (Proverbs 6.6-11; 20.4). And at it's extreme worst, present-orientation
leads to selfish hedonism, including substance abuse and extreme obesity.
Pros & Cons of Future-Orientation
Defining yourself in
terms of your future goals leads to exceptional accomplishments--and high blood
pressure. This is the classic type-A personality, always going, going, going
and never resting. The same biblical passages apply above, including Jesus' example
of fixing our eyes on the future and enduring the difficulty of the moment to
accomplish the greater goal (Hebrews 12.1-2). But exclusive focus here can
cause you to live without most of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5.22-23),
such as love, joy, peace, kindness, and gentleness.
The Best Combination?
So what's the right
mix of orientations? My honest answer: I'm not sure. Certainly, we shouldn't
get stuck in one mode only--all three should show up at some level. But I'm not
sure that the answer is an even 1/3 each, either. In fact, I'd love your opinion
on what the best mix is and why.
What's your
time-orientation profile? (Mine--for better or for worse: Future, 60%, Present:
30%, Past: 10%.) What do you think is the ideal profile and why?
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